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	<title>Comments on: what women want: follow up</title>
	<link>http://theillife.com/2008/03/04/what-women-want-follow-up/</link>
	<description>money, women and happiness</description>
	<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 08:34:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: bigts</title>
		<link>http://theillife.com/2008/03/04/what-women-want-follow-up/#comment-16</link>
		<dc:creator>bigts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2008 15:34:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://theillife.com/2008/03/04/what-women-want-follow-up/#comment-16</guid>
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&lt;blockquote&gt;"But, in the end, either she’s into you or she’s not, regardless of anything else."&lt;/blockquote&gt;

I just don't understand your take on this.  Attraction builds because of action, not inaction.  What you're saying is that relationship success is left to fate.  This is just not accurate, everything you do from the moment you meet someone determines the outcome.

&lt;blockquote&gt;"Also, the two posts you have which link my blog come off as you belittling me and my opinion, i.e. “and gives deep incite to how women think…” Why is ‘deep’ in italics? Being sarcastic?"&lt;/blockquote&gt;

I meant to italicize incite.  I don't mean to belittle you but you're being pedantic.

&lt;blockquote&gt;"Also, my thoughts about this topic revolve more on building relationships, not just kicking ‘game’. Maybe there’s the disparity…"&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Perhaps you don't understand the purpose of kicking 'game'(not my word).  It's a means to an end,  whether or not that end is a solid relationship.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>&#8220;But, in the end, either she’s into you or she’s not, regardless of anything else.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>I just don&#8217;t understand your take on this.  Attraction builds because of action, not inaction.  What you&#8217;re saying is that relationship success is left to fate.  This is just not accurate, everything you do from the moment you meet someone determines the outcome.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Also, the two posts you have which link my blog come off as you belittling me and my opinion, i.e. “and gives deep incite to how women think…” Why is ‘deep’ in italics? Being sarcastic?&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>I meant to italicize incite.  I don&#8217;t mean to belittle you but you&#8217;re being pedantic.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Also, my thoughts about this topic revolve more on building relationships, not just kicking ‘game’. Maybe there’s the disparity…&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>Perhaps you don&#8217;t understand the purpose of kicking &#8216;game&#8217;(not my word).  It&#8217;s a means to an end,  whether or not that end is a solid relationship.</p>
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		<title>By: kara</title>
		<link>http://theillife.com/2008/03/04/what-women-want-follow-up/#comment-15</link>
		<dc:creator>kara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2008 14:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://theillife.com/2008/03/04/what-women-want-follow-up/#comment-15</guid>
		<description>I never said attraction is a one way road.  Sure, there are things that a male can do that will increase his chances of success.  But, in the end, either she's into you or she's not, regardless of anything else.  That's what I meant.

Also, the two posts you have which link my blog come off as you belittling me and my opinion, i.e. "and gives &lt;i&gt;deep&lt;/i&gt; incite to how women think..."  Why is 'deep' in italics?  Being  sarcastic?

I've respected you and not linked to you in my blog (even in the post where I talk about yours I don't link you).  And, although I could use sarcasm and belittle your thoughts about the topic, I have not stooped to that level.  Don't know why you're doing that to me.

Also, my thoughts about this topic revolve more on building relationships, not just kicking 'game'.  Maybe there's the disparity...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I never said attraction is a one way road.  Sure, there are things that a male can do that will increase his chances of success.  But, in the end, either she&#8217;s into you or she&#8217;s not, regardless of anything else.  That&#8217;s what I meant.</p>
<p>Also, the two posts you have which link my blog come off as you belittling me and my opinion, i.e. &#8220;and gives <i>deep</i> incite to how women think&#8230;&#8221;  Why is &#8216;deep&#8217; in italics?  Being  sarcastic?</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve respected you and not linked to you in my blog (even in the post where I talk about yours I don&#8217;t link you).  And, although I could use sarcasm and belittle your thoughts about the topic, I have not stooped to that level.  Don&#8217;t know why you&#8217;re doing that to me.</p>
<p>Also, my thoughts about this topic revolve more on building relationships, not just kicking &#8216;game&#8217;.  Maybe there&#8217;s the disparity&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: bigts</title>
		<link>http://theillife.com/2008/03/04/what-women-want-follow-up/#comment-14</link>
		<dc:creator>bigts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2008 13:46:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://theillife.com/2008/03/04/what-women-want-follow-up/#comment-14</guid>
		<description>^pretty close</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>^pretty close</p>
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		<title>By: kara</title>
		<link>http://theillife.com/2008/03/04/what-women-want-follow-up/#comment-13</link>
		<dc:creator>kara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2008 13:27:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://theillife.com/2008/03/04/what-women-want-follow-up/#comment-13</guid>
		<description>You said, "Kara seems to believe that that attraction is a one way road and that the male can’t do anything to alter the outcome..."

If you really read what I wrote, that isn't exactly what I said.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You said, &#8220;Kara seems to believe that that attraction is a one way road and that the male can’t do anything to alter the outcome&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>If you really read what I wrote, that isn&#8217;t exactly what I said.</p>
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